Honestly Essential Thanks Giveaway!

IMG_20171118_074300_264Hey ya’ll! I love great good for your products so when I saw this post I had to particpate! I followed their three steps to enter

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Screenshot_2017-11-18-07-35-16And recieved this referral link Honestly Essential Thanks Giveaway! So if you are into essential oils click this link and check them out! If you would like to enter their contest then you can check out their IG page at Honestly Essential for their contest link and post!

Until next post, stay sweet ya’ll ✌

 

11/18/17 @ 8:17AM

 

 

A mother’s job is never done…and more


HEY YA’LL!!!

I wanted to drop in to say hi and talk about various things. First off I would like to commend all the parents out here that go above and beyond to keep their children safe and who listen to their babies. I’am experiencing some very alarming things myself having a special needs child in the public school system and finding out that when parents are left out of the loop wheter intentionally or unintentionally that it only takes away from a childs best overall experience. I want to take this time to say please parents who bus their children or drop them off and pick them up. PLEASE observe your childs behavior especially if they are non-verbal. Recognize that something may be occurring with them on the bus rides or with them at school to warrant their change in behavior. Get the contacts of all of those OVER the staff at the Dept of Ed or Special Education Office as it may just be that imperative that you speak to those NOT connected to or aka “buddy buddy” with the Principals and AP’s. Utilize the Parent Advocates for Children’s Hotline and even take the free course/class to become a parent advocate yourself. In any case wheter you have taken a class or not YOU ARE YOUR CHILD’S FIRST ADVOCATE!

I just wanted to say that first and formost. And also, when you can drop in to see who and how individuals interact with your child please do so. Get the Parent coordinators info to gather all the dates for meetings and workshops so that you can attend. Ask questions there and network! I’am a Teacher at heart and always will be. And when I became a para as well I wanted to make a positive difference in a childs life. My own child ended up proving to need all that I have to offer and so that has been the case that he is my main priority. Bottom line is that all who work with such children ought to be properly trained. They should have patience and understanding. They should be driven to find solutions to create a better atmosphere for the child. Not to help create the meltdowns but help prevent them. Not to demonize a toddler or adolescent with a disability and push them down some “school to prison pipeline”. But tap into their full potential and help them to be the best that they can be. It pains me to see and know that many schools do not get adequate staffing or training to deal with special needs children. Yet interact with them daily! Also, that IEP’s where Behavior Intervention Plans should be created are not and therefore the staff are running around like chickens with their heads cut off when encountering a child who needs an ACTIVE PLAN AS PER THEIR IEP states. In short parents it’s up to us to protect, ensure of childrens IEP’s are followed and respect is given to our children when we are not present. Now that I have spoke on what is most dear to my heart we can move on to what life offers that counters all the stresses of everyday life….for me that is my love for Organic and plant based skincare lines. My new Vegan lifestyle, Beauty box subscription boxes and Food subscription boxes that makes every month feel like Christmas 😍

We (me and my mini me) are looking forward to recieving our second “Love with Food” box. The link for this one can be found in the prior post! We are also looking forward to the “Degustaboxusa” that rarely dissapoints. Since it is November I have my fingers crossed for some good pumpkin products or cake mix! As far as Beauty boxes are concerned the only one that excites me is the “Onxybox”. Links for this box can also be found in a prior post of mine along with Degustaboxusa! Now as far as new products that I have tried recently and have fallen in love with and may have mentioned in a prior post and will again they are the “Goddiss Yoni Wash” and “Blemishless liquid face mask” by The Urban Goddiss, the “Lanbeli Soap” and lip balm by Senica Naturals , the “Starlightbutter” by Mercuryiii. The “Apple Cider Vinegar Hair Rinse” by DP HUE that I now know of thanks to the October 2017 We Are Onyx Box. Last but not least the “Hemp Heal Hempseed Master Salve” by Natural Mixologist! And if you follow me on IG then you know that there are some new products by different creators that I want to try asap! Im on a budget and actually have enough of what we need and will not be greedy but when Im down to my last plant based bar of soap and moisturizer I will surely be checking the following businesses out! These are their IG accounts and their links. There are some Jewelry and Apparel accounts among them as well! Check them all out when you can!

@thesheabuttercreamdiva The Shea Butter Cream Diva

@dylansdelights___Dylan Delights

@peaceofjewel Piece of Jewel

@monie_skin_care Monie Skincare

@magnitude_mbs Magnitude mbs

@pink_pearl_naturals Pink Pearl Naturals

@ince_apparel_jewelry Ince Apparel Jewelry

@ladyteecollection Lady Tee Collection

@deelioness_jewelry Deelioness Jewelry

@Lavish_eyelashes Lavish Eyelashes

@pppartwork PPP Artwork

@twistbyvee Twist By Vee

On this note Im out. I had a big bowl of Oatmeal with some apple sauce, raw sugar and raisins and I just want to sit and chillax . Ah, and work with my LO on his potty training since he is home today. (School trip today that parents were not allowed on unless they arrived at the site of the trip separately -___-….. smh. Such a shame. We shall take our own trips with family where I can ensure his safety. If you know your child you can relate) Until my next post….stay sweet ☺

November 8th 2017 at 9:32am

It’s been a while aye…let’s chat

Hey guys…. scratch that, what’s up my people? 😎

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To all the parents reading how are you doing today? Have your little ones started school already or are they about to? Be it be Homeschool, Public school or Private school the time is upon us lol. I have rather enjoyed the quietness of summer but at last it must come to an end. Im trying to mentally prepare for all the moving and shacking (Literally) I will have to endure traveling everyday and prepare my ear drums for all the shouting or wtmi (way too much info) conversations that will commence by the young in public. The only thing Im looking forward to is my little one’s achievements throughout the year to come and COOLER WEATHER! Let’s talk about this disrespectful weather and how it has played me lol. I have so finally mastered the perfect full face look highlight and all but could barely wear it this summer out of fear of looking like a sweaty hot mess 😂😂😂 Damn it! The only Hightlight of it all (no pun intended) is that I have come to love the no full face look. The simplicity of rocking a cute winged eye, some shadow and a poppin’ lippie! Or just a poppin’ lippie!

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I actually have discovered some very cool new make up goodies thanks to various subscriptions and Amazon. Like this matte lipgloss set by SXC cosmetics that I found on Amazon a week or so ago as a prime deal at $6 and change…

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But I also want to mention that I have tried and retried some food/snack boxes as well! Two new companies were the Tokyotreat box and the MunchPak box. (Im not sure right now if I uploaded pics from our first and last Tokyotreat box from April 2o17 so I will include it here now) But the MunchPak box is from this month August 2017 and our first time trying it. If these are not highlighted link’s right now dont worry they will be later. You should know by now that I type to my hearts content and then come back to proof read. Im honestly hoping that one day I will proof read and find zero errors but ummmm yea not sure when that will occur lol. Anyway, one of the food/snack boxes we revisted (me and my mini me) was the small box by Univeral Yums! I was trying to be frugal so we got the small box and because it was Columbia snacks this month I figured we’d appreaciate it no matter the size/amount of items and we did! Everything was yummy. Let me just insert the pics now… here’s the Universal Yums box (small box)20170817_210540

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And here is the MunchPak Box!

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Here is the Tokyotreat box that I possibly may have blogged about buy dont have time to check so Im just gonna stick this pic here…if I have someone let me know! I have quite a number of posts. And we have tried quite a few snack boxes…

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Until next post stay sweet, Im out…for now ✌

8/22/17 Tuesday @ 3:52 PM

“Volume Up” theme….so two “sistas” this month were used for it….hhhmmm

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Hey ya’ll! So, I have already shared the contents of my IPSY Glam Bag on social media but I saved a few of my personal thoughts for here and a private account so here goes! I love the bag every single month that I receive it or that I’m subscribed to receive one.

It appears that they really do pay attention to your product reviews and the whole nine yards. They even went as far as to have one of the three faces of Ipsy be a young beautiful female of color aka what we call “Black”. And yes, she has blue eyes……so it would appear that it was too much to expect a black woman with a common eye color to be selected just like when “Blondes” with blue eyes are used when that is not a common physical trait. In any case at least they have included ALL representations more or less like the different types of people that subscribe to their beauty bag. I totally give them props for that! I already know what type of world and industry this is (sigh). One thing is always said like “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” and another thing is always projected like a standard of beauty or beauty hierarchy which tells you who the beholder is at the end of the day as far as how this society sees it lol. Before I get into what grinded my gears lets just take a look at what I got this month. I’ll post the link to my YouTube channel below so that you can see everything better afterwards.

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Oh, I even took advantage of a Ipsy Deal they had and this is what came in that box

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I have to say the polish so far is my favorite product from that offer!

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Okay. Now, having said all the above lets Tak about what grinded my gears. The theme was what? VOLUME UP…. and they chose this month to have not one but TWO women of color for this theme that are not usually used for their campaigns and etc. Some may have missed the stereotyping but I did not! Sadly, in this Country and all over the world Women of color are said and ALWAYS depicted to be loud mouthed, outspoken or unmanageable females. Usually the darker the black female is the more “ratchet” her character has been as we have seen portrayed for YEARS on TV shows, movies and music. To the point that I honestly believe many sistas have bought into that image but that is a whole different topic for another post. Anyway, of ALL the months I find it no coincidence that two “black females” were used to promote the theme “Volume Up” and as they elaborated they wanted everyone to challenge themselves in regards to “Fearlessly Expressing” Themselves

-____- So for me it read as if and always that the only females who can do such are Black Woman. Bottom line, I found the whole bit insulting to me and to all the other race of women but then again black women are always depicted and have been for years as loud mouths and etc so this subliminal stereotypically representation nonsense probably went over so many peoples heads. You can think what you may or want to. I mean maybe others felt or will feel it was a compliment! To each their own. I CAN  understand that as well and play devils advocate. I could have said to myself “Hey, who better to showcase for “Volume Up” than women of color whose natural hair defys gravity and whom could have easily modeled whatever line of mascara that promised volume. Whom have been labeled outspoken and etc primarily because they/we have had to speak up against SEVERAL INJUSTICES against us and our people throughout history so “surprise surprise” the stigma that is attached to us til this day is of such so why not own it! I know the flip side. TRUST ME. But Im just sharing what was my pet peeve this month regardless! And to my recollection I have never disliked their themes or execution of them. Even when they did not have anyone who looked like me I thought well hell that’s a just the normal run of the muck American style Advertising and Marketing by any other race to leave out those of color and if a company did include us I knew they just wanted our money or to appear politically correct lol (Shrugs). I can’t say for a fact that it was INTENTIONALLY done to offend anyone so I wont dwell on it. Of course it absolutely may have been done with the thought that no one would see it as such. They tend to put their “best foot forward” with positive vibes/images/messages out that it would be hard to suspect that. I only really care about the products coming my way each month so I saw the subs and brushed it to the side until some mins ago when I decided to blog. And in this day and age it may be a trivial matter and/or of little importance to anyone. And I know no one or no company is perfect so I will let them have this one. Anyway for a much better look at the products I receieved and their size check out my Ipsy Unbagging video on Youtube.

Until the next bag or box….stay sweet ✌

Monday 6/19/17 @12:18AM

 

My 2017 Top 3 Beauty and Health picks!

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My new favorite beauty and Health products for 2017!

Now, if it was not for Amazon and their lightning deals I would not have bothered to ever try out the natural toothpaste cleaner by Primal life Organics in Black Peppermint but Im happy I did! I love the way my whole mouth feels after using it. And I apply it all over my teeth and let it sit for 2 to 3 mins before brushing and rinsing. It states that it “Gently Polishes, Detoxifies, Re-Mineralizes, Strengthens Teeth” I CAN SAY THAT IT DOES SUCH and you can click the image below to check them out!

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The next product I have fallen in love with is in a scent I adore which is Cake Batter by Eclispe! My lips tend to get dry very easily and then I pick at them and when I had that occuring two days ago I reached for the Lippiebox this came in that I subscribed to back in Feb for the Valentines box! And after two applications my lips returned to their natural non dry and chapped condition that I love to see them in.

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Lastly, a product I discovered via IG just like the previous item. The Franckincense and myrrh shea butter by The Black Market Group and I can tell you now that it will be a regular on my dresser for years to come! It smells wonderful and is very moisturizing. I love the way my face and legs look after applying!

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Now that I have shared what I love and fancy why dont you let me know what your top 3 product picks are as to date! Im curious to know!

Until next post, stay sweet ✌

 

Tuesday June. 6th 2017 @ 1:03pm

 

One last thing for the night! Goodies!!!

Last month I had the pleasure of purchasing some awesome lippies from a new cosmetics company called Anicosmetics! I ordered one of their lipsticks and one of their lipstains….Im in love! The stain stays put and the lipstick is super moisturizing. Check out the colors I selected below …Screenshot_2017-03-01-18-33-12-1

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And of course I have to show you how I looked in them😎

Wearing the Lipstain in Regal

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I absolutely adore these lippies and will be picking up some other colors as soon as I can!

Now let me tell you about the Company I discovered this weekend. They have a line of lippies that also blow me away and they are Vegan! The company is Mercuryiii! They have an astrology or should I say Zodiac themed line or lines of cosmetics that I find just so unique and clever. Not to mention right on the money color and concept wise. Check out a few here…Screenshot_2017-04-02-15-12-33-1

The top one is Gemini and that’s the one I bought! (Pic from their IG page)

I will be looking to try out some more great cosmetic lines and will be back to tell you guys all about them. I also will be back to give my opinion on Meruryiii’s Gemini lippie! Until then stay sweet. Later ✌

(Disclaimer, everything was purchased with my own money (Just as everything else I have ever blogged about was unless I mentioned otherwise) and neither one of the companies have sponsored this blog post (just as no others have unless I have mentioned otherwise…which was never lol) This was shared out of pure love and appreaciation for their products! Take care ya’ll 😊)

3/3/17 @11:24pm

Yay! 3/09/16 this all began…1 year down 👐

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I will be back to chat a bit more in this post but for now I will just ask if you guys would comment below what you want to see posted here most this year! For me it’s food recipes of mine I have yet to share! Anyway, XoXo! Thanks for always checking in. There will still be subscription boxes shared here like my most recent one by the Candy Club!

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March 10th 2017 @9:13PM

 

Almost One Year of Blogging….

20170127_075413 Hey everyone! I can’t believe that a whole year has gone by since I first started this blog? It sure went like the wind! I have a few more days til it’s official but I want to take the time now to thank each and every single one of you who cruise through my blog posts! Espeacially those who comment. I read you guys comments daily. ALL OF THEM, for a matter of fact so I see you spammers as well….”bless your heart” as my grandmother would say. I’m never going to approve your comments but go right ahead on using your energy to submit them if that makes you happy! To one in particular that was not so much spam but a fellow Blogger whose site mentioned how the earth is not round but flat….thank you for visiting my blog. I returned the favor by clicking your link and thoroughly enjoyed your site! I have yet to approve your comment since I only viewed it in my email and not here. I have to dedicate a day to trashing spam to find your comment and many others like yours! Just know you guys that I appreaciate you all very much! I really do want this to be a engaging site with you all giving feed back, RESPECTFUL opinions and advice. I like to think at this age that Im at, that I know exactly who I’am and what I like and dont like. What I will accept and not accept. Will stand for and not stand for but in reality there is about 10% room for the unknown and unexpected for me. There are plenty of subscription boxes I have yet to try and life experiences as a woman, person of color (Oh, I know the correct term too by the way and it ain’t Black or African American but for right now…) and mother I have yet to experience but with each lesson I grow. Just as with each subscription box, purchase elsewhere and research hour dedicated to knowing more about what I’am rubbing on my skin, or ingesting and digesting. As for this Blog it is a mini expression of who I’am. Not perfect, but perfect in my imperfection and eager to learn, grow, share and repeat! I hope you guys have been entertained, educated, made to think about many things and overall pleased with what you have found here this past year. When it is officially one year as to date (in a few days) I will be back! For now, I’am going to enjoy this Tuesday in which I’am trying to get over a cold with my favorite chocolate by my side 😆

Tuesday, Feb 28th 2017 @12:44pm

Snow Storm in NYC!

Hey guuuyyysss! Im talking to you from the comfort of my bed. I have looked outside and seen the accumulation of snow thus far and thought thank goodness I can stay in and rest. It was declared yesterday that schools would be closed today due to the expected snow storm. Meanwhile, parents and others may STILL be expected to head out to work? My little sister has been told by her managers that they are going to open at 3:30pm. That just blows my mind right there but Im not the least bit surprised as some folks/companies only care about profit. Nevermind that they will be wasting electricity and putting their workers in possible danger while they travel back in forth on the road in this storm. To wait for customers who are being advised to stay indoors…..yeeeaaaaa let that sink in.

On another subject, I have receieved the February 2017 Degustaboxusa food box and cannot say it excited me much. It did however excite my LO who had seen an unboxing online prior to us receiving ours last night. He could not wait to open the included Walker’s Shortbread cookies. And they did not dissapoint either of us despite them being crumbs as most of it was broken up. As I already stated I was not excited by this months selection but happy to have recieved an extra item which I received in the past and loved. The Lovely chews! 😍😍😍😍 The other extras were two items I told them in the survey I DID NOT LIKE. The very artificial tasting gummies with yogurt from Welcher’s and the Jolly time popcorn that tasted like a bag of chemicals last month. The items for the February box was a hot sauce, cookies, dark chocolate bar with salt (wwhhyyy), a orange soda by Jones, two small packs of a sauce and a fettuccine package. I may have left one item out but I will simply come back and update this post later with pictures for accuracy! Ah!! As I type this out I have received a message from my sis and apparently after much thought her company will  be closed today. 😒 😂

February 9th 2017 (Thursday) @12:57pm afternoon